Do We Even Believe in Commitments Anymore?

Today's USA Today has a story on its front page titled "Tempers rise over oil-heat lock-ins".

Basically it gives examples of people and organizations that locked in prices thinking they were going to stay high, only to see them fall significantly.

Several of the organizations had reasonable positions such as this: We rolled the dice and did what we thought was the best thing to do.

But here's what kills me:

• In Connecticut, more than 500 people have called the attorney general's office in the past two months, trying to get out of the fuel contracts.
  
• New Hampshire's attorney general's office received at least a dozen calls and the Vermont AG's office about two dozen from upset homeowners.
  
• "It's a universal plea: they want us to extricate them from these contracts," says Attorney General Richard Blumenthal

I just can't get over how people can feel this way. If the price had gone up, and the people they bought the lock-ins from had called them to get out of the contracts, you can bet they would have been outraged! But they have no problem trying to go the other way.

Do we as a people place no value on our word? Goodness, these are binding legal contracts - if someone won't even live up to that, I can pretty much guess what they'd do with their word given the slightest difficulty. Hmmm, seems like the Bible says something about that somewhere...

Compromise in Religion

Religion is one thing on which we just can't compromise.

I suspect most of you have just now decided that I'm either crazy or just plain wrong. After all, if you really look closely, aren't most churches built on the idea that most things is OK, as long as it feels good? As long as we feel that we're serving God? And that anyone who disagrees is a crazy rule-keeper trying to work his way to Heaven? I think many (even most) people believe this, because I can't think of any other way to explain the vast differences in belief between people who call themselves Christians.

It seems to me that if God is real, and there is an absolute truth, then he has defined what is right and what is wrong. Negotiations between people don't come into it. Votes among delegates at conferences don't influence what is true and what is not.

My friend Gary has a great example of this on his website - click on "Answer 3 simple questions." just under the picture of the pen.

Here's the bottom line: What you and I want is immaterial. All that matters is what God wants. Realizing this is a big step toward aligning ourselves with Him.

And what God wants doesn't change. This is well said in a great Hank Snow song called My Religion's Not Old Fashioned (but It's Real Genuine). Some of the words in this link are a bit garbled, but you get the picture.

If those words are true, and I believe they are, then many churches are just wrong.

Whoa! Can you believe I just said that!? Surely I don't mean that? Well, yes, I'm afraid I do.

Do I believe I have all the answers? That I'm going to heaven and everyone else is bound straight for h-e-double-toothpicks?

Hardly. But I will say this: if you aren't regularly reading the Bible and praying for God to help you find the truth, how will you know what's right and what's not? You can't just believe what you hear from your friends or even your preacher - you have to be a Berean (Acts 17: 10-12) and decide for yourself.

And you can't just make up stuff because it feels good. Think about that - do you believe you can trust your daily feelings to tell you what God wants you to do?

Another "lukewarm" thought

I wanted to share this from my church bulletin last weekend. This rings so true to me. Why are the actions of so many "church-going" people completely out of sync with this?

"Christianity, if false, is of no importance, and if true, of infinite importance. The only thing it cannot be is moderately important." - C.S. Lewis

Our Video Game Scores

I have a friend who suffers from pretty severe depression, occasionally to the point of suicidal thoughts. He wrote me this email:

Have you ever played a game, made a big mistake and now have no hope of getting a decent score? So maybe you play around a bit waiting for it to be over - giving no serious effort to it. Well, that's how I've been about almost everything my whole life. I just want whatever it is I'm having to do to be over."

I replied that I didn't think God cares what his score is and that in many ways he is better off than someone with a huge score (by being rich, powerful, healthy, famous, etc.) because they tend to think their score is because of their efforts alone.

Interestingly, just a few hours later I just happened to run across this:

Thus says the LORD: "Let not the wise man boast in his wisdom, let not the mighty man boast in his might, let not the rich man boast in his riches, but let him who boasts boast in this, that he understands and knows me, that I am the LORD who practices steadfast love, justice, and righteousness in the earth. For in these things I delight, declares the LORD." - Jeremiah 9:23-24 (English Standard Version)

"We are delivered!" - Or Are We?

Jeremiah 7:8-10 (ESV):

"Behold, you trust in deceptive words to no avail. Will you steal, murder, commit adultery, swear falsely, make offerings to Baal, and go after other gods that you have not known, and then come and stand before me in this house, which is called by my name, and say, 'We are delivered!'—only to go on doing all these abominations?

Isn't this as valid today as it was almost 3,000 years ago?

The Cursing Christian?

Have any of you ever seen an episode of the television show Dog the Bounty Hunter? The lead character is a flamboyant bounty hunter who seems to make (or did the few times I saw it) a point of showing/claiming that he's a faithful Christian. I don't think he his, for many reasons, but one seems obvious: he curses quite often.

In my younger days, I used to curse quite a bit, and seldom thought much about it. As I've tried to be a faithful Christian these past few years I've worked to do that less and less and now rarely do (and try never to). I have known many people who don't think it is a big deal. Many of them don't think there is anything contradictory about cursing at will and being a Christian.

What does the Bible say?

• Hosea 4:2 - there is swearing, lying, murder, stealing, and committing adultery; they break all bounds, and bloodshed follows bloodshed.
  
• Psalm 19:14 - Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in your sight, O LORD, my rock and my redeemer.
  
• Ephesians 4:29 - Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.
  
• Matthew 12:35-37 - The good person out of his good treasure brings forth good, and the evil person out of his evil treasure brings forth evil. I tell you, on the day of judgment people will give account for every careless word they speak, for by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.
  
• Matthew 15:11 - it is not what goes into the mouth that defiles a person, but what comes out of the mouth; this defiles a person.
  
• Colossians 3:8 - But now you must put them all away: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and obscene talk from your mouth.
  
• Titus 2:7-8 - Show yourself in all respects to be a model of good works, and in your teaching show integrity, dignity, and sound speech that cannot be condemned, so that an opponent may be put to shame, having nothing evil to say about us.
  
• 1 Peter 3:10 - Whoever desires to love life and see good days, let him keep his tongue from evil and his lips from speaking deceit;
  
• James 3:9-12 - With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. From the same mouth come blessing and cursing. My brothers, these things ought not to be so. Does a spring pour forth from the same opening both fresh and salt water? Can a fig tree, my brothers, bear olives, or a grapevine produce figs? Neither can a salt pond yield fresh water.
  

How exactly would we reconcile cursing and being a faithful Christian? Unless you believe that the Bible doesn't apply to you, or think that only part of it does, or something equally irrational, I don't see how you can.

And one last thing: I think there is a big difference between rebellion (I'm cursing and I'm not going to stop) and weakness (I'm trying to stop, but slipped up today and then repented and am trying to not do it again). This article is about the former, not the latter.

$20

I heard a great sermon recently about prayer. In it the speaker (Norm Webb, Jr.) made a point that I thought was worth repeating:

I see you one day and tell you that I'm a little short of cash and ask you to loan me $20. Then I avoid you for months and when I do finally see you I give you a hard luck story and ask you for $20 more. You are more hesitant but you give it to me. Same thing - I avoid you for as long as I can and then when we do meet, the first thing I do is ask you for more money. You might exclaim "Hey, is that all you want from me? Don't you care about our relationship at all?"

Ask yourself whether you are doing that with God and your prayer.

My apologies to Norm if I didn't get that exactly right. But hopefully you get the point.

Attitude, Part 2

I listened to a sermon a while back that just annoyed me no end.

I was sitting there, thinking that surely there was something more important to be talking about, silently disagreeing with the whole thing. Well, maybe not disagreeing as much as just not liking it.

I don't want to have that attitude, so I've thought a lot about why I had such a reaction. Was it not following the Scripture? No, I think it was Biblically sound. Did it not apply to me? No, it did. Was it something that I was doing, and was unhappy that someone would have the audacity to preach was wrong? Not really, upon reflection I think I do fairly well on this subject.

So why the negative reaction? Maybe it was my pride telling me that I'm too good to need to hear a message like this. Maybe it was Satan whispering in my ear that I don't need to worry about the little things - just "love God and my neighbor" and the details of daily life don't matter. Maybe it was me comparing myself to this or that person and thinking about just how much better I'm doing in this or that area.

A friend recently said that we've got to get over the attitude that when we find our behavior in conflict with the Bible, it is an indication that we found something wrong in the Bible, not that we've found something wrong in us.

And let's define "wrong" here. By that he meant "incorrect, or in need of work".

What is the point of the word of God? Isn't it intended to show the faithful how to be more like God? And aren't people who are interested in being more like God likely to see those places where God seems to want some trivial behavior, or whatever, as being red flags for our attitudes? Maybe those are just pointing out places where we need special effort to bring our attitudes and behavior into conformance with His view of things.

I learned a lot from my (mostly internal) experience with this sermon. I've got to get more on board with the choice of whether I want to follow God, or my own feelings (when they conflict - I think the ultimate goal is to change myself to the point that there is no conflict). And perhaps more to the point here, to be welcoming, not resentful, of any Biblically sound instruction.

Attitude, Part 1

This is how Dictionary.com defines attitude:

Attitude: "manner, disposition, feeling, position, etc., with regard to a person or thing; tendency or orientation, esp. of the mind"

Take a second to consider yours. Not at this particular moment, but overall, day to day (the problem with "right now" is that it will usually be too heavily influenced by how you feel).

If you think you have a pretty good/positive attitude, try this: imagine your 8 year old spilling his drink on the living room carpet, or being late to work when someone bumps you from behind at a stop sign, or dropping a spoonful of spaghetti on your dress at lunch, or any number of irritating things that can happen to us daily.

How do you respond when something like that happens? If you are like me, you get annoyed. And you may yell at the driver, or get upset with your 8-year old, or stomp around in a mad-at-self display.

So how do you fix this? What I do is say "that's what I did this time". And just think about that. And then, maybe because you think about that, next time you can catch yourself and in each case be a bit less so. This will work, though it may take a while. If you are impatient, just think where you'll be in "a while" if you don't start trying to fix it now.

One last thing: how often do you take offense at what people say to or about you? It's the same process. And really this is just trying to be less concerned about ourselves. If we try thinking less of ourselves (or rather, thinking of ourselves less) we'll take less offense at what people say. And I believe take another step on the path toward God.

The Point of Truth

I think we all come to a point of truth in our lives. That is when we decide whether we really want to know what God expects of us. And whether we are going to follow him or not.

I can understand an honest atheist. If you've examined the evidence and conclude that religion is all a bunch of made up nonsense, that's fine. I think you are wrong but I respect your decision. If you don't believe in hell, then you certainly shouldn't worry about it.

It is the lukewarm "Christian" I can't understand. The person who believes the Bible is true, but don't follow it (and seems to seldom even read it). Who seems to agree that there is indeed a God in heaven, and perhaps a devil in hell, but are content to occasionally go to church but not look too deeply into what all this means. Who pray when they need help, but go about their business the rest of the time.

I mean, either this stuff is true or it isn't. Being half way true really doesn't make a lot of sense. If it isn't true, then don't worry. But if you think it is true, then shouldn't you take it seriously?

How does one break out of this state of being? Honestly I'm not sure. I spent most of my life as a resident of that state, and only in the past few years struggled out of it. Why did I decide that what I was doing wasn't enough? That I was mouthing the words but not living the life? I just don't know. I can't remember turning right instead of left. I can't remember explicitly choosing God over Satan. I can't remember what made me sit up and realize that I wasn't really a Christian (though I was pretending to be one), and much more importantly, start taking action to change that.

While I can't remember exactly when I changed my path, I can think of two things that influenced me.

The first is my reading of the Bible. C.S. Lewis said that the Bible is an education in itself, and I believe that's true. Read it often (and sincerely) enough, and it will change you. It is hard to explain how (here's one attempt), but I very much believe it has worked for me.

The second is that for years I've prayed for God to show me his will. To help me see what I should do and to have the courage to do it. I think he answered it by guiding me - by helping me turn right instead of left, but helping me see more clearly what is right and what is wrong. By giving me the desire and ability to start toward Him.

That seems pretty simple doesn't it? Read the Bible and pray for help. Over and over.

If you feel lost, that something is missing, that you aren't on the right path, just do those two things (and if you aren't sure how to get started with either of them, email me - I'd be thrilled to do what I can to help you - and you might be surprised to find out just how many people will line up to do the same). Be patient and do this for as long as it takes - days, months, years. Keep doing it and wherever you are, whatever kind of person you may be, God will answer you. He may do it in his own time, but he'll definitely do it. He's promised that, and he doesn't break his promises.